[The Leader] How Do You Replace a Legend?

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Leaders come and go, some without notice, and some that leave a void like that special friend who has moved away.

Leslie Roffman will retire next June from The Little School at the end of the 2016 school year.

I will miss her. So will a community of thousands of parents and kids.

In 50 years as a faculty and staff member,  a student and a parent, the number of administrators I’ve known that are both really liked AND respected I can count on three fingers.… Read the rest

[Early Spring 2015] The Envelope, Please

It’s a time of year when even the most distant observer notes that winners are separated from something referred to as losers. Who you are can be confused with what you’ve won (lately).

College bowl games, Super Bowl, Golden Globe, Writers Guild of America, Grammys, Oscars – all proclaiming who is/was hot, and maybe by inference, who is not.

Barack Obama got into the act with his January State of Union address noting that his campaigning days were over – eliciting cheers from Republicans – followed by a telling tally – “I should know because I’ve won both of them.Read the rest

Raise Your Hand. Take Blame. Fast!

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The difference was between an OK bonus that the senior manager would receive and the really nice bonus  they wouldn’t receive was one word: responsibility.

The recipient, my client explained, shirked from responsibility.

When something went wrong, it was usually someone else’s fault.

When it came time to put a stake in the ground, they were often last to do so.… Read the rest

[Life Back West] Winter 2014 – “Thank You”

November was a blur but I came away with one distilled thought: It never hurts to give thanks for thanks.Thank YOU red grunge vintage seal isolated on white

The good deeds – mitzvahs if you speak Yiddish – directed my way were small to large but net-net, they were all very kind and very terrific.

The unfortunate expectation that some people have is that if you do good for someone else there is a chit, a payback note, that suggests the next favor is due you.… Read the rest

Words versus Deeds

“The smallest deed is better than the greatest intention.” – John Burroughs

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