(Almost) Never Take the Counter Offer

The question from a Quora post was not-so-unusual,

 

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I am working for a company from last 8 months. I resigned there because i was getting better offer in terms of money anywhere else. My present employer counter offered same salary. Work wise both companies are same. Will things change if i stay in my current company (like perspective of manager and HRs towards me)?

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Managing Your Career: The End of Privacy

There was a minor kerfluffle with an organization with which I’m associated; a blog stalker noticed that a post I wrote quoted somebody from the organization by name (accurately, and within context, btw) and took exception.

Like the swimmer who admires the beauty in the whites of a sharks’ teeth before realizing they are about to be eaten, there are far bigger issues for anyone to worry about than someone quoting somebody else accurately on a blog.Read the rest

Culture Club: Beware of the Backbenchers

 

Backbenchers, alas, are everywhere.

They are the people in companies and associations who are quick to point out the flaws and misdoings of others but seldom are on-point to take responsibility or blame, especially when things go south.

They are folks who are adequately competent but are more interested in taking care of themselves – as well as alerting “management” to the shortcomings of others – rather than working hard to move the organization forward.… Read the rest

Better to Be Naughty (or Mean) than Nice?

The word from a recent study is that people who make things miserable for everyone else at work get paid the most.

Santa Checks the Naughty or Nice List

So if mean people make more than everyone else, is it better – in this season of Christmas – to be naughty or nice?

Best answer? It depends

While mean people, frequently stereotyped as those hard charging, take no prisoner, “Type A” personality folks may make more money, turns out they don’t live as long.… Read the rest