De Nile is not a River

shutterstock_95386021Face it, we all do it:

  • The job we’re hopeful we’ll land has no chance of ever showing up in an offer letter.
  • That diet (mine in this case) that we think worked well has the regular 36″ waist size slacks still too tight.
  • The company that’s getting it’s lunch handed to it in the market continues to think and refer to itself as a market leader.
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Paging Sue Leeson: “You Can Do Better”

Sometimes the best thing you can do to help someone is a firm tap and playing a bit of a noodge.

Feedback-loop-general

The fact of the matter is that people seldom improve without some sort of feedback, and if you don’t help them with it, who do you think will?

I thought of noodge (or nudge) as I sent a note back to a coaching client asking them to rework their “lighthouse letter” – a product that asks exec coaching clients to put down in one page the conversation their grandkids/grandnieces – nephews would have if the now 100-year old client overhead them describing the client’s life.… Read the rest