[Life Back West] November 2011 – “My New Life”

Sometimes you see your future from a distance and approach it step by step as you would the Rockies from the plains below; you know the route, and how to travel it.
Jerry Mathers and Paul Sullivan
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Other times, though, you realize that like that unfriendly cat who has suddenly decided to be friendly, it’s in your lap; what you’re staring at is your future that’s become your present.… Read the rest

Madeleine P. Brennan and the Trouble with Standards

It’s been a tough few weeks for standards.

While the details and allegations aren’t settled, the arc of the scandals involving Herman Cain, the Penn State University football child sex abuse case, Tokyo-based Olympus CEO firing and coverup, and the Jon Corzine -MF Global debacle is familiar; people betrayed positions of public trust.

There are standards that everyone flaunts (Are you driving 60 miles per hour in a 55 mph zone?Read the rest

8 Dreaded Words? “I’ll follow-up and get back to you”

It has become the dreaded phrase you don’t want to hear; “I’ll follow-up and get back to you”

Why? Because when you hear that phrase you know that 90% of the people you deal with won’t get back to you.

I’ve stopped chuckling when I get the email from someone with whom I’m scheduled to meet (“Are we still on to meet at 2 PM tomorrow”) because I realize we live in a world where people, rather than do as they say they’re going to do, do as they say they won’t.… Read the rest

The Talent Test: The Problem with “High Potentials”

The headline in the Wall Street Journal earlier this month blared “Employees with ‘High Potential’ Need to Know.

There’s just one problem. If you want to screw up talent, tell them they’ve got high potential – shorthand for they’ve been tapped and they’re great.

Why?

Research (Carol Dweck) shows that labeling folks doesn’t work to improve performance. In fact, labeling folks (“great,” “high-potential,” etc.Read the rest

Your Career: When the “Sure Thing” Isn’t

Sometimes the job you’ve been promised won’t be there; sometimes the job you think you’ve lost may return.

So how do you know if it’s a sure thing?

You won’t.

Learn why the “sure thing” today is likely the maybe thing tomorrow, and what you can do to make yourself better prepared when that sure-thing-to-make-or-nothing happens.

Why is the sure thing is not exactly the sure thing?Read the rest