How Can You Win by Losing?

Many of us, unless you’re a parent tanking to let your kid beat you, like to win.shutterstock_90826274

Po Bronson and Ashley Merryman in their (excellent) new book Top Dog will tell you that it this drive to win is part genetic, part upbringing, and part cultural – and that you can even successfully change how you approach competition.

Some of us desperately care about winning.… Read the rest

[Happy Birthday Dr. King] The Pace of Change – San Francisco

Tomorrow is the annual celebration of the Martin Luther King’s birthday, and as I sit here with my 7 year-old son, I wonder what Dr. King would make of aspects of our world today some 40+  years after his death.

Some parts of the world would like strikingly familiar. As chronicled in a trip to south Texas this past year – The Pace of Change: Uvalde, Texas 1953 – some parts of the nation look socially  as they must have not only 40 years ago, but 60 or 70 years ago.Read the rest