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“Adventure is worthwhile in itself.” – Amelia Earhart

Time to go.

We’ve all hit that point where we’re faced with the thought of whether to stay or leave a job.

Like that smart ad by job posting site Indeed called “The Box” (“He knew this day would come.”) – my turn weighing pros and cons came last summer.… Read the rest

[Early Fall 2015] The Sorting Hat

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Students at Hogwarts categorized and selected into the proper best fit house;  Gryffindor, Hufflepuff, Ravenclaw or Slytherin.

Each sort carries a certain set of assumed characteristics and attributes. Each placements mark a lifetime of assumptions about character and future.

If humans weren’t malleable it might be a good practice. It’s just not the case.

While some aspects of temperament endure – e.g.… Read the rest

[The Leader] How Do You Replace a Legend?

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Leaders come and go, some without notice, and some that leave a void like that special friend who has moved away.

Leslie Roffman will retire next June from The Little School at the end of the 2016 school year.

I will miss her. So will a community of thousands of parents and kids.

In 50 years as a faculty and staff member,  a student and a parent, the number of administrators I’ve known that are both really liked AND respected I can count on three fingers.… Read the rest

Raise Your Hand. Take Blame. Fast!

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The difference was between an OK bonus that the senior manager would receive and the really nice bonus  they wouldn’t receive was one word: responsibility.

The recipient, my client explained, shirked from responsibility.

When something went wrong, it was usually someone else’s fault.

When it came time to put a stake in the ground, they were often last to do so.… Read the rest

Pick Up the Phone. Call.

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It’s easy to do in our digital world; send the email or text, respond via text or email back and forth and before you know it the thread has 7 or 8 back and forths.

Do something different; pick up the phone and call.

Or do what I do – send a note to ask when the person’s available to take a call and call them then.… Read the rest

[Life Back West] Winter 2014 – “Thank You”

November was a blur but I came away with one distilled thought: It never hurts to give thanks for thanks.Thank YOU red grunge vintage seal isolated on white

The good deeds – mitzvahs if you speak Yiddish – directed my way were small to large but net-net, they were all very kind and very terrific.

The unfortunate expectation that some people have is that if you do good for someone else there is a chit, a payback note, that suggests the next favor is due you.… Read the rest