Barrier Busters

The Catch: Willie Mays hauls in Vic Wertz's dr...

Every time I look at my pocketbook, I see Jackie Robinson.

Willie Mays

 

The Catch: Willie Mays hauls in Vic Wertz’s drive at the warning track in the 1954 World Series. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

 

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Are You a Mensch or Mouse?

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We’ve all been there. You too.

The rumors and gossip are swirling.

The job or organization fit that your colleague/ coworker / friend hoped would work out looks like it won’t.

And now people treat them as they’re leaving under their own power as if they’re radioactive and there’s a do not disturb sign on their forehead.

Do you approach them and offer a hand, a hug or help or do you keep your distance?… Read the rest

[Life Back West] October 2013 – Kismet?

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Yes, kismet,” I said. “The not-so-accidental fact that I’m working with someone who has some of the same strengths and challenges that I have. The good news? I know them well.”

The CEO’s direct report was the client, someone I’ll call “Bob,” did indeed have a skill set that reminded me of me; hardworking, a nose for the business, great rapport with people below him on the corporate pecking order, broad interests and knowledge, smart (well, maybe not that part) and the ability to be too candid when greater diplomacy was in retrospect warranted.Read the rest

Lose Your Voice?

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It was the first question my exec coaching client asked himself as the chairman went around the room polling everyone’s thoughts.

Worse,” my client said, “I knew it was a really bad idea and everyone else knew it too.”

Research by social scientists documents the dangers of groupthink; an opinion gets started, a couple of people agree, and pretty soon you have a tidal wave of sentiment pushing in one direction.Read the rest